COMPARISON

Have you ever been compare by people with another person? Have you ever compare another person with another person? Have you ever compare yourself with other person??

No matter which situation, it is also named as comparing.

How will you feel when you know someone is comparing you with another person? Have you ever thought of others feeling when you compare a person with another? What will you feel again when you are comparing youself with others?

Its not that comparing is not good, maybe it is an encouragement in some way but most probably it will comes out with a negative effect unless that person himself/herself is taking that particular person as their examples and role model. Therefore, this will be a different situation.

I had never been stop comparing by people and we all do, I think. Especially by parents. They like to comapre results. They like to compare the number their children gets in the class. They like to compare how much money their children can earn. This is something we often see in the reality and also advertisement if you really realise that.

I believe everyone ever compare by their parents with her friend's daugther or son. Or your relatives.

I never like my mum compare me to anyone. She will say, "You see who who who result is better than yours, than who who who work so hard can get so high marks." I know sometimes she is just trying to tell me to be more hardworking and get better marks than I can have now. But does she know she had actually hurt me indirectly. It is really sad when someone you trust so much is comparing you with someone else and saying you can be better. Isn't it the effort that we put in is more meaningful than the outcome we get??

I have my own standard and limit. Even how hard she try to push me or push myself, I still can't go that far. Everyone standard and limit is born nature. I don't meant to critic anyone or point out anything in here but just thinking that no one is perfect. Of course I was not nagging about my mum just wanted to give examples on comparing.

I know that feeling. That is why I never compare anyone to anybody. I know everyone have their strong and weak point and that is what make one outstanding and different from each other don't you agree??

So try not to compare among people as you yourself do not like to be compare as well!! No one can replace you, no one will be like you. ITS YOU WHO MAKES YOU DIFFERENT!!!