爱一个人好难

爱一个人好难

为什么爱一个人要去计较他是否有学历，有金钱，有地位。难道爱一个人就不能只因为爱他吗? 我认为这个世界现在根本不会去计较到底配不配这样的问题，可是我却发现我这样的想法完全是错的。

人还是现实的。没有学历的人就不能和有学历的人在一起，没有钱的人根不可以和有钱的人交往，门当户对这样的想法还是有。

有时候我在想人为什么要众人的外表来判断一个人的行为，人格，还有个性呢？难道人长的坏是他们想要得吗？他们没的选择。还有，没念书的人难道就不会是好人了吗？念书的人就一定是好人吗？人不可貌相，海水不可斗量。

对我来说，人的各性不是一天两天能了解的。时间是很重要来慢慢观察。因为假如第一眼就把人判断是坏人那不就对他人很不公平。所以我希望可以让人与人之间互相了解才作判断。


P.S: if theres any wrong words please forgive me, i am still in the process of learning....let me know if i make mistake

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