Have you ever thought of this question? i believe most of us would have thought this before. When you are single, you wanted to be in a relation. When you are in a relation, you wish to get rid of all those aside and get back into single. Human huh?? Really hard to understand isn't it? Where ever or which ever situation are you in, both have goods and bads.
If you are single, you are free to do anything you want except ur parents of course. You have no one to always ask where are you, you do not have to report where you go, what you do, who are you with because there is no one really worries and care you that much as in a relation isn't it? You do not have to feel bad when you can't think of what to buy for your bf/gf during his/her birthday, valentine's day and also anniversary! Isn't that being single much better?
Somehow being single sometimes feel lonely too! You will feel that no one cares, no one pampered, no one loves you(not include parents), no one to share your sad and happy times. You will feel that the night is colder than usual, you will feel that you are so lonely than the other night.
However,being in a relation, you will feel the happiness you might never had even you had a very great family members. The feeling being with the one you love totally different! You have someone to care and care of you. you have someone to share your sad and happy time even you might not want to say. You will have someone right beside yout to company you when you are feeling down,without asking why when you are not ready to say. (even sometimes it might not be how and what I describe, at least some will) You have someone to pampered you, showered you with their love and also never give you up (even friends do that, but different feelings)!
Somehow when you quarrel and arguement arise you feel sad, you feel disappointed! You always hope that the one should understand you more never did. You do not know when will the one you love betray you. You don't know when will the one you love leave you. You don't know when will the one you love might take away by someone else. Alot of uncertainties. That is when single is better when someone worries too much!!
So, in a relation or single it all depends on a person on thoughts and fate.
[In a relation or single, I had never expect too much. What I mean is when it comes I will accept as it is not what I can control(depends on situation). When you are in love, be loyal, be faithful! The one you love might be your life partner. Remember someone told me that,
Do you agree with that?? Being single now is something that I still not used to. Hasn't been single for so long and now I had to try to fit in to this status. I hope it won't be hard. I don't want just simply get someone to be with or into a relation without forget the previous one yet even I had feelings to anyone out there. Me, myself also still confuse with my own feelings and what I actually want. I think time will tell.]
If you are single, you are free to do anything you want except ur parents of course. You have no one to always ask where are you, you do not have to report where you go, what you do, who are you with because there is no one really worries and care you that much as in a relation isn't it? You do not have to feel bad when you can't think of what to buy for your bf/gf during his/her birthday, valentine's day and also anniversary! Isn't that being single much better?
Somehow being single sometimes feel lonely too! You will feel that no one cares, no one pampered, no one loves you(not include parents), no one to share your sad and happy times. You will feel that the night is colder than usual, you will feel that you are so lonely than the other night.
However,being in a relation, you will feel the happiness you might never had even you had a very great family members. The feeling being with the one you love totally different! You have someone to care and care of you. you have someone to share your sad and happy time even you might not want to say. You will have someone right beside yout to company you when you are feeling down,without asking why when you are not ready to say. (even sometimes it might not be how and what I describe, at least some will) You have someone to pampered you, showered you with their love and also never give you up (even friends do that, but different feelings)!
Somehow when you quarrel and arguement arise you feel sad, you feel disappointed! You always hope that the one should understand you more never did. You do not know when will the one you love betray you. You don't know when will the one you love leave you. You don't know when will the one you love might take away by someone else. Alot of uncertainties. That is when single is better when someone worries too much!!
So, in a relation or single it all depends on a person on thoughts and fate.
[In a relation or single, I had never expect too much. What I mean is when it comes I will accept as it is not what I can control(depends on situation). When you are in love, be loyal, be faithful! The one you love might be your life partner. Remember someone told me that,
"GOD actually separate one seeds into 2and the seeds turn into 2 human, one male and the other one female. That is why human always seeking for their other half life partner. Its a part of life!"
Do you agree with that?? Being single now is something that I still not used to. Hasn't been single for so long and now I had to try to fit in to this status. I hope it won't be hard. I don't want just simply get someone to be with or into a relation without forget the previous one yet even I had feelings to anyone out there. Me, myself also still confuse with my own feelings and what I actually want. I think time will tell.]
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